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    • Bishop Eddie Long Affairs
    • Cathlic Preist-Pedophiles
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    • Abuse Enabling Bishops
    • Joshua Duggar- Child Porn
    • Warren Jeffs - Sex Addict
    • Evangelical Sex Scandals
    • Jeffrey Epstien-Offender
    • President Donald Trump
    • Former Pres. Bill Clinton
    • CIA - David Petraeus
    • Herman Cain Accused
    • Eliot Spitzer - Client #9
    • John Edwards Love Child
    • Arnold Schwarzenegger
    • Indiana Rep Mark Souder
    • Eric Massa Groping
    • Gov. Mark Sanford Affair
    • Penn State-Jerry Sandusky
    • Rev.Chuck Phelps Cover-up
    • Former Rep. Eric Massa

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  • Synthia Esther Minsitries
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  • A Free Gift!-John 3:16-17
  • Shaming Relationships
  • Abortion = Birth Control
  • Surviving The Storm
  • Dirty Jokes & Sinful Folk
  • Sinister Sexual Deviants
  • Paid For Sex-Prostitution
  • The Girl Friend Exper.
  • Mental Health & Addiction
  • Sexual Sin Trinity
  • Boy Scout Sex Scandals
  • Animal Sex Abusers
  • Pimps-Sexual Trafficking
  • The Franklin Cover-up
  • Michael Guglielmucci Hoax
  • Ted and Gayle Haggard
  • Bill Goddard- Sex Groomer
  • Bishop Eddie Long Affairs
  • Cathlic Preist-Pedophiles
  • Catholic Sex Crimes
  • Abuse Enabling Bishops
  • Joshua Duggar- Child Porn
  • Warren Jeffs - Sex Addict
  • Evangelical Sex Scandals
  • Jeffrey Epstien-Offender
  • President Donald Trump
  • Former Pres. Bill Clinton
  • CIA - David Petraeus
  • Herman Cain Accused
  • Eliot Spitzer - Client #9
  • John Edwards Love Child
  • Arnold Schwarzenegger
  • Indiana Rep Mark Souder
  • Eric Massa Groping
  • Gov. Mark Sanford Affair
  • Penn State-Jerry Sandusky
  • Rev.Chuck Phelps Cover-up
  • Former Rep. Eric Massa

Shaming Relationships: Projection Rejection & Spirit Defeat.

Those who protect themselves will oftentimes project their sin and shame problems onto you!


GOD'S POWER TO HEAL THE SHAMED BASED PERSONALITY TYPE


SHAME - A COMPLEX INVISIBLE EMOTION - "SEEING YOURSELF THROUGH SOMEONE ELSE'S EYES INSTEAD OF GOD'S IS SAD AND SORROWFUL".


 

By Synthia Esther


He grew up with a mother who constantly shamed him, and a father who was passive-aggressive, and could careless about the abuse or how he was raised.  Having had so close a relationship with the complex, invisible emotion of shame, his maturity and personal strength levels were very low.  The least of provocation would set him off and into a world filled with self-doubt, humiliation, guilt, confusion, embarrassment, inferiority, and regret.  Feeling dishonored and improper, his mind was filled with negative, painful, anxiety.  When confronted with any problem, he too used this same "shame based coping mechanism" his mother had deeply, embedded into his psyche. 


Merriam Webster defines shame as, "a painful emotion caused by consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or impropriety."  When a person sees themselves through another person's eyes, their self-regulation is often irrational.  Psychoanalysis is often sought in the treatment of a shame based personality type.  Compassionate people are often sought out by these poorly modulated individuals who are living in the emotional dysregulation depths of shame. 


Shame disconnects a person's ability to feel they are worthy of love and limits the intimacy God desires in our relationship with Him.   The bondage of self perception cripples our faith.  As Christians we are to take God at His word, which confirms His grace, mercy, and unconditional love, and the power to heal our broken hearts.


Isaiah 1:18,

1 John 1:9,

Psalm 103:12,

Titus 2:14,

Ephesians 1:7,

Romans 8:1,

Micah 7:19,

Psalm 103:2-4,

Philippians 3:13,

Hebrews 10:22,

2 Corinthians 2:5-7,

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Abuse is never justified.  The lack of love and care growing up is a crime many have to deal with for the rest of their life.  I recently met just such a female  abuse victim, Ms. Joy,  Whose mother even withheld food from her children!  Instead  spending all money and income solely on self-centered self!   



Yet, Ms. Joy, fondly remembers she was blessed with food by way of a local church food bank, and with free school lunches.

While her life was not so great growing up,  As an adult, Ms. Joy, who is a born again Christian,  strives to be a person who gives, instead of takes,  Her spirit is  filled with a sincere and genuine care for others.  In turn her life example confirms God's word in Psalm 34:18,  that it is He who heals the broken hearted and saves the crushed in spirit.



One has to ponder and wonder, why some such wounded souls desire to grow past their sorrows and help others?   While other abused souls grow more bitter, and avenge fully more  harmful seemingly each and every day.



It is our outlook in life that shapes and molds our attitude, for better or for worst.   With God, all things are possible, if we only believe...



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HOPE IN JESUS-THE AUTHOR & FINISHER OF OUR FAITH

God honors those who honor Him... - 1st Samuel 2:30.

 JESUS CHRIST IS OUR HOPE AND GUIDE 



By Synthia Esther

December 23, 2009



CNN, Larry King Live, December  22, 2009, aired the program topic, life after death titled, "Seeing The  White Light."  The panel of guests on the television show included New  Age author and metaphysical seeker, Dr. Deepak Chopra, who made the  comment during conversation, "Hope is a sign of despair."  I agree with  Henryk Sienkiewiez, "The greater the philosopher, the harder it is for  him to answer the questions of the average man."  I shook my head in  disbelief, striving to comprehend a life without the hope of our  heavenly Father's love.  A life without the providence of God's mighty  hand of grace and mercy. God's word states in Proverbs 13:12, "Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life."



THERE IS HOPE IN GOD'S PROVIDENCE 


"...Those who hope in the Lord will  renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will  run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." -  Isaiah  40:30-31.



HOPE IS "A GIFT FROM GOD"


Walter was driving in the rain on a  long distance winter trip when he decided to stop for lunch at a truck  stop.  Before going inside, he noticed a rather gruff looking middle  aged man in tattered clothing, sitting hovered under the corner of the  roof line of the restaurant, trying to avoid the rain.   Walter said a  silent prayer to God for him before going inside the busy restaurant.   He then took a seat at the counter bar to eat, ordering a bowl of hot  vegetable soup with a side of saltine crackers.  



Lunch hit the spot  in Walter's stomach on such a cold and rain soaked day.  Before paying  for his meal, Walter felt an urge within his heart, quickened by the  Holy Spirit, to order another bowl of soup and crackers to go.  He then  asked the waitress to give it to the man outside, telling him, "This is a  gift from God."  The waitress smiled in agreement, commenting, "God is  good, isn't He."



Continuing his trip, Walter drove into  the late night hours.  Struggling to keep his eyes on the road  while remaining awake, became a rather grueling chore.  His worn wind  shield wipers didn't seem to be keeping up with the torrent of rain  pouring down.  Going around a curve, Walter lost control of his car,  ending up in a ditch, unconscious.  Within minutes a lone stranger  driving by noticed the wreckage, and stopped to help.  Unable to call  911 due to the lack of cell phone coverage on the patch of rural country  road, the stranger helped Walter into his car and took him home. 



Once they arrived, the stranger and  his wife helped Walter.  The man gave Walter a fresh change of clothing,  and his wife warmed a hot bowl of vegetable soup.  Sitting at their  kitchen table, Walter also noted a small plate of chipped china covered  with saltine crackers.  Tears welled up in Walter's eyes as the Holy  Spirit's still small voice whispered, "this is a gift from God."  Not  only had God arranged Walter's safety, health, and comfort.   He once  again had confirmed His love.  



Taking a bite of saltine cracker, Walter  smiled remembering the written word of God in Matthew 5:13-16, "You  are the salt of the earth.  But if the salt loses its saltiness, how  can it be made salty again?  It is not longer good for anything, except  to be thrown out and trampled by men.  You are the light of the world.  A  city on a hill cannot be hidden.  Neither do people light a lamp and  put it under a bowl.  Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives  light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine  before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in  heaven." 



OUR HOPE IS IN JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD! 



God's plan for His children is always  filled with hope and a good future (Jeremiah 29:11).  Being kind to  others, shows the world an example of Christ's loving kindness.  The  word God is included within the word good.  When good deeds are done,  God's presence is ever near.  Miracles happen when we place our hope in  Jesus!  Salvation in Christ is based on the glorious hope of all saints  in the "resurrection of the dead," and eternal life (Acts 23:6; 26:6-8;  26:22-23; 28:20).   


Christ Jesus is our hope (1st Timothy 1:1; Ephesians  1:11).  "I keep asking the God of our Lord  Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and  revelation, so that you may know Him better.  I pray also that the eyes  of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the "hope"  to which He has called you, the riches of His glorious inheritance in  the saints, and His incomparably great power for us who believe,"  (Ephesians 1:17-18).




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