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WHAT DO YOUR SEXUAL LUST ADDICTIONS AND TEMPTATIONS REVEAL ABOUT YOU?

WHAT YOUR SECRET SINS REVEAL

By Synthia Esther

Your fantasy sex, romance, and love addictions often reveal a lot about you.  Living behind the mask of your addiction becomes a way to cope with pain, shame, rejection, abandonment, lack of love, abuse, crisis, stress, and/or anxiety.   According to psychiatrist Scott Peck, author of the book, "The Road Less Traveled",   a compulsive pursuit of sex and fantasy, is in reality a search for spirituality.  To heal sexually and emotionally, is to heal spiritually.  

The "Fear of God" strengthens our spiritual connections to God.

As divinely formulated and conveyed through out the Bible, "The Fear of God"  holds forth much wisdom.   Yes, you read it right.  If you "feared God" you would know that you and/or your family (incest is a common problem in sex addicted tainted households) are put in spiritual blight when you break God's ordained good, Holy plan for your life.  Your fantasy sexual lusts, temptations, acting out, are not God's will for your life.  

"Oh, that they had such a heart in them that they would fear Me and always keep My commandments, that it might go well with them and with their children forever!" - Deuteronomy 5:29. 

"The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, to turn one away from the snares of death." - Proverbs 14:27

These are not isolated scripture references.  Moses proclaimed that fearing God within the heart provides strength to walk free from sin (Exod. 20:20).   Solomon proclaimed, "By the fear of the Lord one departs from evil." - Proverbs 16:6. 

So likewise in Luke 12:4-5 we read, "And I say to you, My friends, do not be afraid of those who kill the body, and after that have no more that they can do.  But I will show you whom you should fear: Fear Him who, after he has killed, has power to cast into hell; yes, I say to you, Fear Him!"  

When one fears God's spiritual authority they know, "...there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, nor hidden that will not be known." - Luke 12:2.   Sins course of evil will always bring truth to light, one always reaps what one sows' 

IT IS IMPORTANT TO NOTE THAT GOD HEALS THE BROKEN HEARTED:

God and His love can heal one's broken heart and wounded soul (1 Peter 2:24; Jere. 33:6; Ps. 41:3; 147:3).  He desires our relationship with Him to be authentic, strong, and true.   The bondage of self perception cripples our faith in God, alone.  As Christians we are to take God at His word, which confirms His grace, mercy, and unconditional love, and the power to heal our broken hearts.  Peace, joy, and hope is the by product of His loving kindness (Jere. 29:11),  

Additional Scriptural Resource Help:

Isaiah 1:18,

1 John 1:9,

Psalm 103:12,

Titus 2:14,

Ephesians 1:7,

Romans 8:1,

Micah 7:19,

Psalm 103:2-4,

Philippians 3:13,

Hebrews 10:22,

2 Corinthians 2:5-7,

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 DEAR MISS PORN

* Dear Ms. Porn is dedicated to the wounded and abused wives or partners  of sex and pornography addicts, and is based on true confessions from  those I have personally interviewed or met in person.   Including many infamous, now saved and redeemed  sex  industry workers.  Also  noted are the sexually trafficked  innocents, who have become slaves within the demonically inspired, and infused sex industry. 

Dear Ms. Porn,

Though you never  knew me, I intimately knew you.  Once I discovered your existence you  managed to shatter all my dreams come true.  Your naked anatomy and  sensual expression is a memory that plays as if on cue.  I had suffered  emotional, verbal, and physical abuse, however, learning of you the pain  was as profuse.

His secret love  affair made everything too complicated to ever call a truce.  I began to  see you everywhere...on television, magazines, bill broads, marquee  signs, grocery stores, movies, videos, and even sacred church.  You  called yourself hot and holy, yet your blatant seduction made me think I  was cursed.  I felt satanic oppression as sweeping depression became my  perch.

Bestiality was a  part of my husband's sexual obsession.  Nellie, our family cat died,  which prompted his evil confession.  Innocent children and animals  suffered from his demonic possession.

I faced Ms. Porn  and deeply felt her scorn.  Then I found out about Ms. Prostitution and  swore evil vengeance as my constitution.  

My "ex" said you would never  go away.  I finally realized you were in our relationship to stay. There  was no end to his sexual perversion and behavior.   I cried out to God,  "I thought you were my Savior!"

You were suppose to be a  proclaimed sister in Christ, but instead it seemed your heart was the victim of a heist.  

You called me a  jealous Christian zealous, I called you a fake and someone who was  untrue.  As you sought to  seduce my husband, while even sitting next to us on a church pew.

Your hooker and escort ads made me angry and want to stew.   When the sexual trafficking of minors,  became your  regular brew.  my anger vastly grew.  You used abortion as a form of birth control, more times than a few. 

You  took my husband's money, while our children's hunger only grew.  Yet you  were smiling and I was still crying forever feeling blue.  I wondered  where was God in all this, for you seemed to not even have a clue.

Feeling defeated and all so depleted, I slit my wrist with a knife to end the anguish and strife.  After an hour I washed the blood off in the shower.  It was then I remembered Calvary's Cross and its power!  Once again the love of God became my strong tower.

Now I pray for the  porn star, the stripper, and the addict.  As they are seeking physical  perfection, instead of God's Holy protection.  May you find light  in the darkness, ever realizing the starkness, that a life without Jesus  Christ is nothing but harshness.  I pray for your sons, your daughters,  and even your pets.  Building a bridge of unity through Christ's love  brings nothing but the best. 

Though  my outward  appearance may not be as fair or lovely as you.  I pray you see the  beauty of holy righteousness forever shining true. 

Copyright - Synthia Esther.  All Rights Reserved.

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MEMORIAL TO EX-PORN, SEX  FILM  INDUSTRY WORKER, TURNED CHRISTIAN* ACTIVIST:  SHELLY LUBBEN

SHELLY LYNN  "Roxy - her adult firm industry name)  MOORE LUBBEN  (May 18, 1966 - Feb. 9, 2019).

Documentation Source: Wikipedia and findagrave.com

I had interacted with Shelly Lubben,  during my social media activism days, often defending her like Christian  Biblical stance against the vexing sex-porn industry.   As Roxy, she had worked in the sex - porn industry at the age of 24 (and also as a Prostitute)  from the age of 18-26 .  One of her customers got her pregnant, and she later gave birth to a daughter.   Her published work, "Truth Behind The Fantasy of Porn; The Greatest Illusion on Earth" :  ISBN 978-1-4538-6007-6-Wikipedia cited. 

Always there to help those in need via her  "Pink Cross Foundation" work,  Shelly went on to become an ordained Chaplain with the Order of Saint Martin, with a degree in Theological studies, and  was a personal blessing to many, including myself.   

God supernaturally  changed Shelly's life, in very dramatic ways.  However, her past emotional plight continued to plague her, as it is now  known that she died due to  prescription drug over-dose, and also battled alcohol addiction (Source:  findagrave.com).    As often is the case, sexual abuse is linked to many in the sex industry.  Shelly noted in an interview with Howard Stern, and Deseret News, that a female classmate and her teenage brother had sexually abused her at the age of 9, in a swimming pool.  

SYNTHIA ESTHER WEIGHS IN:

Sex God's way is  good.  Sex outside of God's ordained righteous order is harmful in many soul felt ways (Hebrews 13:4).  As Satan, the deceiver comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).   God help our future generations if they cannot see the difference between God's  good, holy order for sex, and Satan's vexing,  addictive sexual entrapments (Mark 7:20-23: 1 John 3:8),

Sex is a Gift from God.  Visit Synthia Esther's free ministry outreach website: www.sexhisway.com, to learn more about God's created plan and will for your sex life.  Sexual fulfillment and expression is great, God's way (Genesis 2:24-25: 1 Corinthians 7:3: Proverbs 5:18-19).  

* Please visit our website page, "A Free Gift!" to learn more about God's Salvation plan (John 3:16-17).