Prostitution And The Girlfriend Experience
By Synthia Esther
Updated: Sept. 12, 2018
Prostitution is defined as selling sex for money, or compensation. In the United States a prostitute's clients are most often called "Johns," and in Canada, "Clients." In the UK - "Clients or Punters," and in Sweden they are termed, "Torskar," which means cod or loser. Those who drive around red-light districts looking for prostitutes are sometimes referred to as "Kerb Crawlers."
Many women within the sex industry use to prefer the name "Courtesans," referring to high caliber prostitutes selling sex, but it is only within the 21st century that sex industry workers are being openly reviewed and rated. There are now online websites that review the "performance" factor of prostitute's, also called escorts or call girls, for hire. Some prostitutes now claim these reviews are a very important part of their business, with review results that can either make you or break you within the industry.
These modern day sex for hire prostitutes offer up a real to life "Girlfriend," (GFE) experience, providing the fantasy relationship of a man's dreams, without the hassel. What I find so amusing is the false reality mindset of the Johns (prostitutes like to call them clients), that stablizes their ultra sensitive and fragile egos, while providing both physical and temporary "emotional and intimate" fulfillment.
The Johns like to pretend they are the boyfriend, to an attractive prostitute. According to the prostitutes I have personally interviewed, none of their Johns would ever be someone they would date in real life as they claim they are not attractive,socially inept, abusive, and usually much older.
One such popular prostitution review site boasted of an accountant who is a top reviewer with over 200 reviews of what is termed the "hobby." He states, "Because I know I cannot be faithful to one woman, marriage has never entered my mind. There is an emotional aspect to the "hobby" and especially the GFE. We want intimacy even though it may not be real."
WANTED: A GIRLFRIEND THAT WILL MAKE ME FEEL ADMIRED, ADORED AND APPRECIATED...EVEN IF IT ISN'T REAL!
It seems many men are looking for a girlfriend without the hassle and coping problems of a true life relationship, which was termed the "unpleasantness of reality," by Jennifer the prostitute (http://jscms.jrn.columbia.edu/cns/2008-04-01/mcdonald-hookersrated).
It's also reported by Jennifer the prostitute, that men want the intense, wild and spontaneous experience they thought romance was all about when they were growing up. Which according to Jennifer, "real life relationships usually kill off."
In many respects Jennifer is right, as life problems, situations and issues can often weigh a relationship down, with sexual fantasy remaining at the bottom of the priority list. What men seem to desire with sex made to order, is to feel admired, adored and appreciated, and they are willing to pay top dollar for a prostitute to reaffirm their lack, in more ways than one.
But what about those monogamous couples who do make it? Who, like my parents, have been married for well over 50 years? According to them, and many others, the problems faced as a couple have only strengthened their resolve and love to grow into a stronger, more intimate bonding experience. Their relationship is much more than sex, and nothing money can buy.
CNBC "DIRTY MONEY", MELISSA FRANCIS REPORTS ON PROSTITUTION AND THE GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE...
CNBC, November 27, 2008, "Dirty Money," is all about the business of high end prostitution. Lucrative, Provocative, and completely Illegal, prostitution glamorized to the 9th degree, is far from reality. As I have personally interviewed many prostitutes, who have readily admitted.
(www.synthiaesther.com - Library Subtab, "Pornography, Prostitution And Crime," "A Prostitute's Story," and "I Paid For Sex With A Prostitute.")
The "Dirty Money" televised report on the age old profession of selling sex, in which the girlfriend experience was addressed. "The most popular item offered by escorts today is called the Girlfriend experience, known by the acronym, the GFE. The definition varies but most agree that it involes some facsimile of real romance." "Escorts advertising on the Internet has exploded in recent years. One study in San Francisco found that the number of ads doubled from 2,500 ads in 2000 to 5,000 in 2005." "Charging fees as high as $25,000 for a two-day engagement, a successful high end escort working full time can make an annual income of more than a half million dollars. High end clients can spend more than $100,000 a year in escort fees."
"An informal survey conducted by an Internet site for men who hire escorts found that 49 percent are married, 40 percent have an income of more than $100,000 and 38 percent hold a graduate degree."
SYNTHIA ESTHER RESPONDS
As long as corrupt men like Eliot Spitzer, former President Bill Clinton, and promiscuous President Donald Trump, remain in leadership... and women like their wives, Slida Spitzer, Hilary Clinton, Malania Trummp, turn and look the other way in public silence, women will remain used and abused by those in power. He said he was sorry... is a common response by women who make a choice to smile and look the other way.
I agree with Kaul Kraus, Austrian journalist, critic, playwright and poet (1874-1936), "Corruption is worse than prostitution. The latter might endanger the morals of an individual, the former invariably endangers the morals of the entire country."
Female Prostitutes selling "The Girl Friend Experience", to men who can't attract pretty women...
By Synthia Esther
Sept. 12, 2018 - Updated December 29, 2021
Finding love in all the wrong places usually ends in loneliness, regret, and deep sorrow. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller (1880-1968).
I WAS A CALL GIRL. THIS IS MY STORY...
"What God Has Done For Other's He Can Do For You!"
By Susan S.
My lifestyle seemed glamorous, at first. But after that first night things quickly faded, as I realized it was just a job. With each client, it took a piece of my soul and led me to destruction. See, I didn’t know it back then, but there was a spiritual force (Ephesians 6:12) that was making my lifestyle look like candy. Candy always tastes good but there is a lot to be said how bad sugar is for the body. Eventually, my lifestyle led to the loss of my marriage and my first born son. But it wasn’t that simple. Eventually, I ended up in jail and I didn’t know who the father was. My son was just a baby; he was only 4 months. I can still remember the scent of his baby lotion. His new crib had barely been slept in. He was my shoulders comfort.
The worst day of my life was 20 years ago. To this day it brings tears to my eyes, every time my memory takes me back in time to when I surrendered him to adoption. I cried my heart out for the next 20 years of my life. This was my consequence, the raw stuff, the real deal of my addiction. That candy tasted sour and I no longer wanted it in my mouth. Ever!
So this is where the happy the story ends. Get real and live happily ever after. That’s how it’s supposed to go, right? But what happens when that candy is tempted in your face for the next breathing years of your life, then what? How far do you go to achieve your dream of not eating it? My friend, you cannot do it without God. I would be lying to you if I told you that you would never again be tempted. It is a continual, work in progress with learning new habits and behaviors. It has been said that dieting is a life-long change, not just a short term diet. I thought that was where my life had ended. But that was where my life began. God knew all that it would take to finally break me to bring me to my knees…. with my eyes up and toward Heaven. I chose the road that led me into that jail. God chose the road that led me out. I encourage you to endure and pray this prayer below.
FORMER CALL GIRL'S PRAYER...
Help me to accomplish not giving into my addiction. I’m tired of this scene and I want this more than anything. I am not able to rise above who I am at this moment. Only You can transform me.
I fully realize that I don't have what it takes to be one without Your help. Take my urges, temptations, questions, tiredness, impatience, and irritability and turn them into kindness, long-suffering and willingness to bear all things.
Take my old emotional habits, mind sets, and automatic reactions and make me patient, kind, gentle, self-controlled, not envious or boastful, nor arrogant or rude. Show me how love does not demand its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
Give me a new heart and work within me to love the life you’ve given me, and all things that you created me to be.
Show me where there is sin in my heart, especially with regard to giving into this temptation. I confess the times when I've just wanted to put this issue aside and go back to my old, familiar ways.
Rescue me from the threshold of separation where the realities of temptation begin. Make me my companion’s helpmate, champion and friend.
And if my journey should lead me to confusion, show me what unconditional love really is. Teach me to accomplish loving only my best friend and how to be successful at it.
Make me a new person, Lord. Give me a fresh perspective, a positive outlook, and a renewed relationship with the second chance you've given me.
Help me to see my current relationship with new eyes, new appreciation, new love, new commitment and new compassion. Give my helpmate a whole new companion, and Lord; let it be me.
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DENIAL OF REALITY _ CODEPENDENCY DEFINED
By Synthia Esther
Your life is consumed with meeting the needs of those who are close to you. You enable, ignore or refuse to let go of an abusive, addict prone partner.
You often feel you are the glue that holds the family or relationship intact. Without you there would not be a family or relationship. You suffer from dysfunctional, obsessive compulsive, maladaptive behaviors, as you seek to habitually save and rescue those you love.
You live in a constant cycle of control. You are most often depressed, sad, drained and frustrated with your inability to change people, situations, and/or circumstances. You fear being alone, in turn making your partner dependent and indebted to your heroic deeds, and savior mentality.
You give to get...because without your sacrificial giving, you feel unworthy of love. Therefore any injustice you may incur from other's is always justified.
You suffer from low self-esteem. Yet you are entrenched and impervious, to your own self destructive coping mechanisms. You prefer to remain in denial, living in a dream land of tunnel vision, never admitting your chaotic symptomatology is part of the problem.
* People don't deceive you...your heart does.
* "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life." - Proverbs 4:23