Sex And Romance Addicts Making The News By Synthia Esther:

According To Many Successful Men, Power, Sex, And Money, Are The Sin Fruit Benefits Of Their Labor.


HOW DOES WANTING TO HAVE SEX BECOME AN ADDICTION?    


 

 Sex addiction is not about having sex.  The underlying psychological  issues concerning sex addiction are much more complex.  Power, control,  abandonment, abuse, neglect, narcissism, among other personality  dynamics and disorders, can all play a part in the psyche of an addict.  ,P.  "Sex addiction is an external response to an internal need." - Synthia  Esther   

 

  SYNTHIA ESTHER, YOU MENTION SEX ADDICTS OFTEN HAVE OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE TENDENCIES, PLEASE EXPLAIN?  

 

 A sex addict lives a life consumed with having sex.  The addict's  wife/husband, significant other, children, family, job, security, love,  relationships, morals,convictions, character, integrity,  and even  health is secondary to thinking about sex, getting sex and having sex. 


 Sex is idealized and idolized. The sex addicts active addiction and  rituals most often become obsessive-compulsive (OCD )in nature.  What was  once considered sexually repulsive becomes lustfully desired in the  escalation process.  Since the advent and anonymity of the World Wide  Web, pedophilia (child and adolescent sex), bestiality (sex with  animals), Dominance and submission, torture sex, as well as other  deviant sexual behavior has increased.  


DOESN'T THE ADDICT KNOW THEIR ACTING OUT, OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE BEHAVIOR IS HURTFUL AND HARMFUL TO THEMSELVES AND OTHERS? 

  

 An active addict remains in denial, having seared his/her conscious.   The sex addict acts out in order to feel better and eliminate shame,  upon completion of the deed, they feel the dreadful pain of remorse,  shame and self hatred, which triggers their desire to act out.  This  simplistic yet insane double mindset sexual cycling process is the  addict's attempt towards self regulation and preservation of his/her  addiction. 


Synthia Esther explains the sexual addiction process...


  "Sex Addiction becomes an ideological, illogical, fantasy of illusion  and denial in the self preservation of ego.  An inflated feeling of  pride and superiority is pervasive within the mind of an addict, as lust  and desire becomes all encompassing, consuming and self-destructive.   *Pride comes before an addicts fall." - Synthia Esther .



  * "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." - Proverbs 11:2. 


  "Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.  Better  to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with  the proud." - Proverbs 16:18-19. 

 


HOW DOES A SEX ADDICT STOP THE CYCLE OF ACTING OUT?   


 The first step towards recovery is to admit you have an addiction.  You  can't change what you don't acknowledge.  Sex addiction begins and ends  within the mind.  To change your mind you have to change your thought  process. When the thought to act out sexually occurs you have a matter  of seconds to redirect your thoughts.  


 Self introspection is helped through journaling, therapy, and an  acknowledged program of self introspection to gain insight, knowledge  and understanding, making healing probable and remission possible. 



   * For additional free online addiction resource help and information, please visit our main sex - pornography addiction website at:  


WWW.SYNTHIAESTHER.COM. 


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Past Legal Legislation in helping to Eliminate Prostitution:


SWEDEN'S GROUNDBREAKING 1999 LEGISLATION   

   

SWEDEN'S SUCCESS IN ELIMINATING PROSTITUTION - A WORLD EXAMPLE OF PROGRESS IN THE PATH OF HUMAN DIGNITY...


In  1999 Swenden's government passed law that regarded prostitution as an  aspect of male violence against women and children.  Prostitution in  Sweden is officially acknowledged as a form of exploitation and  constitutes a significant social problem.  In a matter of a few years  Swenden "significantly" reduced prostitution, futher protecting  children, women and the population as a whole, from a major source of  crime. The police force went through indepth training and recourse  evaluation with the sole message that the exploiter and buyers needed to  be punished, with the prostitutes addressed as victims who needed to be  helped.  In 2002 Sweden passed the "Act Prohibiting Human Trafficking"  for additional law in the fight against sexual exploitation. 

TO CHANGE OUR RESOLVE IS A MATTER OF WORLD GROUPMIND -

"As we change our world's group  mind to acknowledge that prostitutes are victims of coercion, violence  and crime, we change the course of our world's consensus to one of  victor instead of victim in the struggle to eliminate crime, human  suffering and abuse.  Until such resolve is manifested, humanity will  remain in the dark as evil intentions thrive. We change what we  see, and ignor what we refuse to acknowledge." - Synthia Esther


PROSTITUTION LAWS IN AMERICA   

   

*  "Today, prostitution is considered a misdemeanor, punishable by a fine  or a short jail sentence.  In practice, most law enforcement is uneven  and aims at confining illegal activities to particular areas in the  city.  Prostitution is illegal in all states except Nevada(in the  counties in which Las Vegas and Reno are located), where it is a highly  regulated business enterprise." - page 458


* "There has also been an effort to  reduce prostitution and protect children forced into the life by  punishing sex tourism.  The Violent Crime Control and Law  Enforcement Act of 1994 included a provision, referred to as the Child  Sexual Abuse Prevention Act, which made it a criminal offense to travel  abroad for the purpose of engaging in sexual activity with a minor.   Some loopholes were closed when President George W. Bush signed the  Protect Act into law in 2003." page 458.


* "...the Uniform Crime  Report (UCR) indicates that about 80,000 prostitution arrests are made  annually, with the gender ratio about 2 to 1 female to male.  More  alarming is the fact that about 1000 arrests involved minors under the  age of 18, including almost 150 kids aged 15 and under." - page 454,459.



* Source: Criminology, Ninth Edition, Larry J. Siegel, University of Massachusetts, Lowell, Thomson- Wadsworth.


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